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Spammer
Binki09/08/2010
challengem12
Age: 33
Female
From: United States

This person is a spammer.

Last Edited by Binki on 09/08/2010
Here is what a typical spammer will write
Binki09/08/2010
challengem12
Age: 33
Female
From: United States

Hello dear,
How are you doing?i hope you are doing great.well am Angela by name single with no kids and i have never been married before am new on the site and this is my first time being on the internet,a friend of mine introduce me to this site and she created an account on here for me am new as i said and i don't know much about the site i was searching profiles and i saw yours i found it very interesting and i try to contact you and see if you will respond so we could be friends,I want a loving and equal partner to share our lives together.I want to wake up in the morning and look into his eyes and feel deep love for him.I want us to honor and respect each other through good times and bad times.I will cherish him like a fine diamond give him all my love,and he will give me his love in return.If you are real then email me your address and we will start to email each other or you can email me.I am Angelaparlen / at / y a h o o / d o t / com or angelaparlen . com

If they spam you, send the adminstrator an email and post their user name here.
Scammer
Caryatid09/09/2010
The word you're looking for is 'scammer'. There's a big difference between a spammer and a scammer. They operate very differently.

This site has virtually no spammers, but it does have its fair share of scammers.
To spam or to scam
Stephen6609/09/2010
It is best to contact Admin who will remove a scammer right away. It is not wise to post it here.
New to this site in Michigan
komadorlover09/07/2010
Hello,

I am located in Caro, MI and I've been disabled for almost 2yrs now. I am looking for something real and long term.
I Breed, Train and Show Australian Shepherds, so I travel around often, not as much as I used to but I'm hoping to start here again soon.

Thanks for giving me a chance to introduce myself

Jennifer
Welcome Jennifer from Michigan
AdminD4Dcom09/08/2010
How wonderful of a profession you have - Wishing you well here on Dating4Disabled.com

Merryl, site administrator
Welcome Jennifer! Weve got a great bunch here!
Smiley09/08/2010


Last Edited by Smiley on 09/08/2010
°Welcome Jennifer the dog lover!
Stephen6609/08/2010
Self Advocate In Down town San Francisco
jflan 139009/05/2010
Hello my name is Joseph Myself I am Self -Advocate for persons with developmental Disabilities in State of California I am also a Board member for Consumer Advisory Committee for the Department of Developmental Services Which State wide the Council.

The job of the Board directors of CAC Council is to help persons with disabilities that have problems either Housing Transportation Med-Cal Medicare or Hospital concern,
There are 4,280,000 persons with developmental Disabilities within the State of California ,

I recently was giving the award by the Governor of State of California I recevied The James Latin Award along with Sandra Jansen Award for support towards the Sonoma Developmental Center In Eldridge , California who has 22100 persons with developmental disabilities.
°Welcome Joseph. American needs more like you.
Stephen6609/06/2010
Welcome Joseph! We have a great bunch of ....
Smiley09/06/2010
people here!!!!
°Congrats Joseph
peacenik109/06/2010
°Welcome Joseph to Dating4Disabled.com
AdminD4Dcom09/08/2010
Im new living in sauk county wisconsin.
johnp7308/30/2010
Hello
Well i found this site using the search engine.
I hope this is a legitimate place for we who have disabilities to meet.
I am a recovering anorexic, and i also deal with depression issues, but actually get the proper help .I have dealt with these issues most of my 37 years, and people who meet me really couldn't tell i have any of these problems. I just wanted to say hello.
Thanks john
hello JohnP, welcome to the forum and the site!
Smiley08/30/2010
Good luck!
°Welcome John. This is a good safe site.
Stephen6608/31/2010
Yeppers!
peacenik108/30/2010
We are for real...hope you have fun here.
reply
johnp7308/30/2010
Well thanks for the warm welcome!
Welcome Johnp73
AdminD4Dcom09/08/2010


Last Edited by AdminD4Dcom on 09/08/2010
r u into country living ? AMISH COUNTRY BUMPKINS ?
DEC1906308/30/2010
ltnc everyone i have been busy taking care of mom and stan and well stan in going into an old age home as his daughter wishes. mom is doing great and will go wherever i go unless its a shell of a home.

I have been saving my $ for a down payment and collecting all the things that amish people use for a country lifestyle.

If anyone is seeking a simple platonic shared amish country life get back to me. I am now ready to start looking all over appalachia I don't care what gender you are as long as you hate the city and love the country and animals and growing veggies and raising animals.
Danie

PS: I even got a great treadle sewing machine and a apple press and a blacksmith forge and hand crank tools etc etc over 5k worth of great primitive items.
I love love love Amish country life
AdminD4Dcom09/08/2010
Good luck on Dating4Disabled.com -
There are lovely people here and I hope you find what you're looking for.

Merryl, site administrator
Whats in a NAME?
daryl*lynn08/22/2010
What if we upon changing our screen Names we post a notice HERE in this forum. I have a hard time keeping up.
°I have to agree fully, with both parts.
Stephen6608/23/2010
How to use the advanced search on the site
AdminD4Dcom06/23/2010
How to use the Advanced Search Function

1. Go to search

2.Go to advanced search

3. To edit your saved search preferences,

If you're searching for a particular state or province,

4 change the country listed to another one (canada will do)

5. next go back and change it to united states or country of your choice.

6. next, choose State/ Province of your choice

7 Now to the important part:
scroll down slowly and make sure that you uncheck any factors such as female/male only ... and that only features that you want to search for are checked.

8. press save at the very end of the process,

You now should have completed your advanced search.
The heartbeat of a Good Woman
GoodMan196808/20/2010
Hello to all members, especially the blind members

My name is Lee and if I may say so myself, I’m a pretty Good Man looking for a pretty Good Woman. As a 41 year old strong but gentle light brown skinned black man, I meet a woman or two every few years wanting to date me. However, I am not looking for a woman; I am looking for a Good Woman. She can be completely sighted, totally blind, or partially blind. I am just looking for a Good Woman.

I am looking for a mild mannered woman that likes to be gently kissed, held and snuggled, sweet talked, teased with little jokes here and there, and most of all, a woman that wants a man that will cuddle and smooch on the couch with her for hours and hours talking about their hopes and dreams.

As a 5-foot 8-inch totally blind man, I prefer a Christian woman in her thirties or close to my own age under 5-feet 5-inches. Also, because I am still in pretty good shape as far as my weight is concerned, I prefer a woman in the same fairly good condition (140 pounds or less). This similar sizing makes the snuggling better when we are on the couch listening to a digital book together.

Because I am located in Detroit Michigan, I prefer someone in my general area or someone that can afford to travel. I would like someone that likes slowly walking down the street together; perhaps just for something to do. I would like someone that likes going to restaurants; perhaps a different one each month. I would like someone that likes going on group dates; perhaps with lifelong friends. Most of all, I would like someone that wants a long term relationship with a desire for it to one day turn into marriage.

I would also like someone supportive because I have been learning for the past year how to trade the stock market and I am going to need all the support I can get. Also, although I have a two year degree in computers, this would not be required of you. I need only your natural female wisdom, kindness, sweetness, caring nature, and gentle voice to satisfy my mental and emotional needs.

Being an open minded man, I by no means restrict my prospects to any particular race or color. If you are a Good Woman and you are white that would be terrific. If you are a wonderful woman and you are black that would be great. If you are a sweet and gentle Asian, Mexican, Native American, Russian, or sweetish woman, that would be just fine as well. I only ask that you are a Good Woman.

because I do not smoke, I do not drink, I do not do drugs, I do not cheat on women, I do not live on the down low, I do not do anything bi-sexual, I do not do three ways, I do not participate in orgies, I do not engage in wife swapping, I do not enjoy videotaping sexual acts, I do not have any major illnesses, and I do not have any sexually transmitted diseases, I would ask that any woman in my life share these personality and health traits as well.

So if you are interested in seeking further conversation with me, please contact me.

P.S. if you are a wonderful and kind hearted woman and you would simply like to be friends, please feel free to also contact me for this as well. Be sure to mention your preference during your first contact. Remember, I am always willing to make a new Christian friend.

Your new friend, Lee...
°Good luck Lee.
Stephen6608/20/2010
Best Wishes Lee!! We need all the Christians.....
Smiley08/20/2010
we can get for the glory of God!! God bless! (Sorry, I am too old, and possibly seeing someone)
(Women only) Am I really so unattractive?
BobbyJC08/17/2010
I mean I get barely any responses or interest from women on here. I know I'm not handsome, but I never knew I was this unattractive.
Hey cutie, you're too young for me!.... try to
Smiley08/17/2010
spice up your description and be more positive! Work on your self confidence so that you can start telling a woman that she is beautiful too!
Looks!
Gentle Guy08/18/2010
I think its not what you look like that matters is what your like inside. That is what attracts me. Looks change but if a person has goodness and warmth inside their soul then that is always there.
Some of us are scared for life so please feel
Optimism09/01/2010
blessed your not. Looks are not what we look for here. Not all are modles types. None I have found in all the years here.
We are disabled or ill in pain & many other things doll. Never feel that your unattractive. It's whats inside that counts to me!.
Hang in there.. I care hugs to another member of D4D! Opt
it's not...
peacenik108/19/2010
your looks hon'. The pic on your profile is so small it's not that easy to see what you look like. Put more of your personality in your profile.
lack of responses
gentleman3808/19/2010
I think you might want to keep in mind that women might have a different perspective here than men. They are far more often the victims of scammers and users. For each nice guy, they must contend with dozens of men with bad intentions, or men who are too old for them. So naturally many women are more cautious. It is harder for them to know who you really are in this way than in meeting in person, so it takes more patience to earn their trust. Then on top of all of that, people with experience dating through websites can learn to be very cautious because they have so often been disappointed to discover someone is not who they seemed when they communicated online. One woman I met online failed to tell me she was married, so I can understand being cautious. I don't think the lack of correspondence is anything personal about you, but rather just the difficulty of building trust in a cynical world. I think if people had any idea how many good people they miss out on knowing because of fear, they wouldn't think it was worthwhile to be so cautious.
Well said Gentle Man, well said! Patience....
Smiley08/20/2010
and discernment are the key!
°Yes, what you have said most certainly rings true.
Eva9208/22/2010
No and Yes
readysteady08/30/2010
I'm the last person on earth to say that looks don't matter (since I took my photo off I have had MORE visits from women than when I had it on) so when I looked at your photo I expected a troll, but you are definitely not unattractive. In fact, you purty. But your profile needs work. Even if you don't feel like the most confident man in the world right now - and it's understandable with your circumstances - you need to try and be positive in what you say about yourself. These aren't really profiles - they are adverts, and I really can't remember any advert that said "It's an average car with no bells or whistles. Buy it"

PS DON'T use my ad as any sort of guide!
Thanks, but. . .
BobbyJC08/30/2010
No offense, but having a bunch of guys tell me I look good does nothing for me. Second, I think I'm done here, no hard feelings, but it seems like this site is more of a support group than an actual "dating site." Most of the females on here are either "in a relationship," or just plain show no interest or even respond. That, and the general population is decidedly more on the male side, which doesn't appeal to me personally.
This makes twice you said you were gone Bobby
Simply Me08/31/2010
there are advantages to this site and there are disadvantages. You are not happy with yourself and it shows. Sometimes the ladies out here don't pick up their mail for a long time. And the new mail alert feature does not work which has been discussed over in tech.

Not only do you come out here to gripe.. you have made it clear you don't want to hear from us guys, but yet you want advice on getting/keeping the lady. Well.. I was married once.. and would still be.. but she died.. its been 12 years for me & I haven't met anyone, but I have some faith left. As long as you keep moaning and griping out here, you won't find anyone.
totally
NeeNeRNeeNeR08/31/2010
agree!1 guess he didnt like that cus he deleted
Some people...
peacenik108/31/2010
can't handle the truth no matter how nicely it is said.
I stayed out of this one as I am sick of.....
Stephen6608/31/2010
The anti-male & sometimes anti-gay attitude of some. I have never found the site more male or more female than anywhere else. There are some issues with some gay men, but also with some heterosexual men & women. it reflects life really. I shall say no more as I have said it all before.
when I hear anyone negative about anyone, I ....
Smiley08/31/2010
run! Whether it be friendship or mateship! No thanks! If he/she is talking bad about my fellow bloggers or forumers, he/she is history! Mama cat protecting her cubs! If someone is so obscessed that they can't even consider friendships, then they are obviously overprotective, obscessive, paranoid need I go on?!?! Get a life!
°You go mamma!
Stephen6608/31/2010
°some folks want instant gratification
daryl*lynn08/31/2010
I think you misunderstood. . .
BobbyJC08/31/2010
Since when did I bash anyone? I was just stating my reason for leaving, I understand there are people who find use of this site, and that's their prerogative, as is mine if I am looking for more than friendship. I don't message people who are not here for the same reason, just because I don't want to engage in male-bonding doesn't mean I am "anti-male," or "anti-gay." I wanted the opinions of women, and I made that clear. Simply because I am not going to waste my time with interactions that do not serve my reasons for being on here, does not mean I am being hateful, just honest. I make friends on Facebook, and IRL, I came here for more than that. I made my intentions and motivations very clear. There's no need to act so agressive toward my choice to leave. I have no animosity toward anyone I met on here, even met decent people, but unfortunately I feel that what I am looking for can't be found here. Peace.

Last Edited by BobbyJC on 08/31/2010
Our views are based on some of your.....
Stephen6609/01/2010
Previous Threads too. I wish you well & hope you find what you are looking for.
I hang my head in shame. We do tend to ...
Smiley09/01/2010
stick up for eachother rather vehemently! I was just using my own past experiences, that when i got too exuberant in my dating desires, I lost my head and all reason with it. It is much easier to go with the flow and play on the blogs too, while you are looking for the "right" one. It saves alot of frustration! Good luck to you and God bless!! Peace to you too BobbyJC! Sorry!
Spina Bifida
juliec08/07/2010
Hi I'm new to this website, and I was just wondering why is it so difficult to find a guy my age, I'm 21 who has spina bifida like I do and that lives in the Massachusetts area, now I know I'm not the most patient person, but it is kind of frustrating, I think I'm a good enough person that people would want to know.
°Welcome! Be patient, careful, and have fun!
Smiley08/08/2010
Welcome Juliec. Young men are very.....
Stephen6608/08/2010
Immature, have their minds on only one thing as they are also not fully sexually mature. In fact, most men to not emotionally mature, & fewer even reach full sexual maturity.

There are exceptions of course, so keep trying.
frustrations finding a guy with spina bifida
juliec08/08/2010
yeah I wasn't really looking for anything sexual just someone I could connect with, not on a psyical level, maybe over time, I just have a bunch of these older men who are like in their 40's and 50's IMing me I have yet to be matched with someone whth spina bifida who is around my age, and lives in massachusetts, it probably doesn't help that I'm somewhat of an impatient person
maybe be more explicit in your profile about....
Smiley08/08/2010
what you want and dont want and block your IM.? Join more than one disabled site to keep you occupied to help curb your impatience. Good luck!
other disabilty dating websites
juliec08/08/2010
do you recomend any other disabilty datingwebsites? I thought of that but I'm not sure which ones to try. thanks for the advice!!!
other disabilty dating websites
juliec08/08/2010
also, what do you mean by be more explicit in my profile?
°see your email and have fun!
Smiley08/08/2010
scammers
juliec08/08/2010
smiley it's lindajack778
Connecting
Stephen6608/09/2010
Yeah, that is going to be harder to find, especially in men of that age. It is just a case of keep trying. say what you want clearly, & what you do not want. Most sadly, do not read Profiles, or assume you do not mean what you say, or better yet, think they are a sex |God & you will fall for them in a second.
scammer
juliec08/09/2010
I'm not sure I understand what you mean
he's a man, you're not supposed to...
Smiley08/09/2010
understand what he says or means! It's called Men are from Mars. Get used to it and read up on it honey! You'll get alot of practice on here!
he's a man
juliec08/09/2010
good to know cause I am now horribly confused! lol
°Hey cheeky lips! I am a gay man, TY!
Stephen6608/10/2010
so you expect guys to read your mind too?
Smiley08/10/2010
so being gay, does that take away those male traits too? Just curious! I've only known lesbians as friends, not guys. Sorry!
No I do not expect gay men to.....
Stephen6608/10/2010
They think that can because almost all men & most gay men think the same. Gay men have most traits that straight men have, sadly.
stephen66 is right
daniel4608/12/2010
shure that stephen66 is right.
This site is overnumbered with gay males.Its seem to me that.I dont know.Better to say
i am scarred.The mayority who wiewed my profile are men.They are like wouchers,they sneek,they try to made contacts.I dont understan why they dont get know each other and make
a community for themself.But no,they want be here,searching,beging,try to be simpatic.
I feel like a girl.And i am not a girl.
I never said that about gay men
Stephen6608/12/2010
I can understand your frustrations with the unwanted attention, but not all gay men are like that. This is a mixed gender & sexuality site, free for all to join. if someone bothers you then you can Block them.

Please do not turn this into a gay-bashing issue.
°Which part do you not understand?
Stephen6608/10/2010
spina bifida
mwb196808/16/2010
just an opinion but those of us who are "different" are veiwed as undatable because most people are looking for the Brad Pitts and Tom Cruises of the world. Ive read enough singles ads to know that most women an are looking for TALL, RICH, GOOD LOOKING and forgive me but WELL ENDOWED men
Tom is nice to look at,. but so are others
Stephen6608/17/2010
I know what you mean. This idea of the perfect body, the perfect look, the perfect face. This even goes out to people who are not disabled, that they are freaks incomparison, so what chance do we stand?

Well, perfection is something that is an illusion & ot is fleeting.
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